I have 2 confessions to make...
1) CONFESSION 1:
I'm not quite sure how this blog will change once this baby is born. Or even IF it will change!
You see...Marionberry Style has always been about style + fashion + beauty for the everyday busy woman. That will NOT change as it is my passion.
But I do imagine that as I take this jump into the next phase of my life, a few of my posts will be more lifestyle + home focused. Heck...I may even have a few posts on baby-related topics.
So I wanted to write to tell you that it is okay if this totally turns you off. I understand. I hope that you'll continue to check back for the style and fashion topics that I love to write about...but I get it if many of you want to stay clear of the "other stuff" I may post on.
2) CONFESSION 2:
I have never been a "baby person."
You may be asking yourself, "What the heck is a baby person?"
So I'll tell you. A "baby person" is a human being that flocks to babies like a Kardashian flocks to publicity. They are just naturally gifted with this adoration and obsession with babies. And guess what? Babies love them too!
Me? Well...show me a photo of your dog and I'll turn to mush. But a baby? They intimidate me. I look at them with one part fascination and one part terror. I never want to hold them because they use their baby-sense (similar to spidy-sense) to know that I'm frightened so they always decide to cry. Then I'm THAT girl who makes babies cry. Awesome.
3) RESOLUTION REGARDING CONFESSION #2:
I tear up just thinking that in a few days I will be a mom (just even typing the word "Mom" makes me take a deep breath). I just never thought I would be blessed like this. It's a long story and maybe I'll share it sometime...but this really is a dream come true.
- So am I
- But do I embrace the idea that I can learn to be one of those "baby persons" whom I admire so much? YesYesYes!
And I here is where I tell you "thank you." So many of you have given me such great advice and encouragement over the past several months. Blogging has been such a gift to me personally over the past year. I hope you'll stick with me through lil' man's arrival and maybe even pretend to be interested when I share a photo or two of him :)
xo - Marion
86 comments:
Your going to be an amazing mom! Much love to you over the next few days!
xx Amy
Leopard and Lillies
congrats on the baby! i guess being a mom comes naturally! nothing to worry about!
BITE MY STYLE
such a great post my friend! you are going to be an amazing mom and I can't wait to see your little one :)
xoxo,
Fashion Fractions
Marion- being a mommy to your own child is completely different and amazing feeling. I never thought that I would have a kid and still have people tell me OMG your a mom! You will be a great mommy because you want to be.
PS on a side note- yes we did go to HS together and I can't believe I stumbled upon your blog.
All the best wishes for the birth, Marion! :)
xx ♥
Aw, I know what you mean about not being a "baby person". But, I know you're going to be a great mom! :)
So excited for you and I am definitely sticking around to see how your life and blog changes..so excited for you!
Sheree xxx
www.itsnotthatdeep.com
All the best for you! Your baby is going to love you anyway!!!
And of COURSE - I will keep on following your blog, wether you will post pics and baby related posts or not!
I'm really looking forward to your baby posts and pics! Don't worry about not being a baby person, I'm not either and I'm having baby no.2 soon :)
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Beauty by Emma
I have a 15 month old girl that I adore, but I still don't really care for other people's (even friends) babies that much. But having your own is totally different.
I would welcome a mix of fashion and baby stuff, but that is b/c I have one and am a working Mom myself.
Maybe the "baby" posts can be more about styling "mom" clothes better - comfy flats, dressed up leggings, etc.
Aww you're going to be a great mom and trust me once you hold your own baby...you'll become a baby person even if it is just with him :)
I started reading your blog for the fashion. But I'll tell you what Marion, now I check it everyday to see if the little man has arrived yet. I can't wait to read and learn about your ideas on style as a busy mom.
Best,
Sarah Dub'ya
You don't have to be a "baby person" to be a great mom. Once your sweet boy arrives, your heart will take over and you'll have more love than you ever imagined for your little one. And when he cries for you, you will know what to do...because he's yours.
It all takes time. You WILL be awesome at being a mom.
Marion, my dear dear friend Marion!!!!
Let me tell you something!!!! Not only have a categorized myself as a "non-baby" person my entire, entire life but I thought I would never get married or have kids. I used to be one of those kids in your office I'm sure. Dyed hair, piercings everywhere, doc Martin. Boots, ripped levi's and fishnets! Yes this mom of soon to be 3, happily married woman was quiet the wild child, party animal and certainly wasn't having any babies or getting married!!
In fact I STILL will not hold peoples newborn babies!! And not only a mom, I'm a nurse but other peoples babies just aren't my thing! And that's ok. People make it sound like you have be mother Theresa to be a mother. Just trust me when I say that everything will hamge once it's your baby, in your arms. You will know exactly what to do Marion!!!!
I loves this post because I relates completely!!!!
Your going to be wonderful!!!
Sorry for the novel!!!
I don't doubt your blog will change when you have a baby - but it will change in a way that makes it even more fab!! Here's to exciting new changes! xx
i remember when i did my ob rotation that so many new (and not new) moms were not "baby people." they love their own and that was enough for them. same thing in peds. parents loved their own, but still were not "kid people." either way you go, you'll still be an awesome mommy :)
I'm not a baby person either but I love my own baby ;) I never thought having a baby would change me but it did, and for the better as everyone around me says. My blog used to be mostly about makeup, but it has changed to also include baby posts. Though it is still mainly a makeup blog.
I love your blog and will continue to check you out :) and excited about your new journey as a mom. Trust me, being a mom is the best thing that has ever happened to me :)
i love this post because i am not a baby person either... however, i've followed your blog for almost a year now and love your posts, sense of humor, and have been following the pregnancy photo journey, so you can be sure i'll stick around. can't wait to see how you dress your stylish little guy too!
kw, Ladies in Navy
You almost had me there! I thought your post title "Blogging and a baby" meant that your bundle of joy had arrived.
Well when we have family get-togethers I'm THAT only girl who isn't chasing a toddler or rocking a baby to sleep.
Kali
Kali Now Living
no matter what direction you take -- I will still read your blog! xo
http://allthingsprettyandlittle.blogspot.com/
no matter what direction you take -- I will still read your blog! xo
http://allthingsprettyandlittle.blogspot.com/
Marion -
I have been reading your blog for quite sometime and I have no doubt that you will make a fantastic mother. The love you have shown to your four legged babies would let anyone know this little guy is going to be very lucky to have a mom like you!
Good luck with the arrival of your little one!
All I can say as a mother of 4 ages 26 to 12 is hang on, you are in for one amazing ride. Nothing can fully prepare you but it is an amazing journey. My best advice is to never take yourself off the list and always take care of you, it benefits your entire family! I hope your blog changes as it should, people can pick and choose what to read, your blog is your journey!
And now I'm crying...thanks for that. :)
You KNOW that you and I are on the same page when it comes to being non-baby people. With that said, I love you so very much, and I am so excited for you and your new adventure. I woke up thinking about you this morning...I'm just so excited for you, Marion! I love and miss you every single day! Oh, and you've soooo got this! Lil man is one lucky guy to have such amazing parents!
You are going to be a wonderful mother, and definitely can't wait to see pics!
I will still be tuning in! You are in for a great experience, if the last 2.25 years has taught me anything!
So can you be a partial baby person? For example: I'm totally excited to read your baby posts. I will swoon and make baby noises as I smile at your pictures and stories. But if you ever walked up to me with a baby I would probably make those same noises while I slowly back away.
Can't wait to see where your blog goes!
Jenn
With Luck
Best wishes to you, Marion! I'd love to see some baby related topics too. It's totally different when it's your own baby... you'll be great!
i am SO excited for you and girl, i will read anything you post!! :)
As a fellow mom, I will appreciate and admire your style even more after you have the baby. And I look forward to posts about this new phase in your life!
Alison
www.getyourprettyon.com
I expect TONS of baby pics and lots of baby talk. I'm so excited for you! :)
Your blog will change once this baby is born, but for the better. Your life will change but again for the better. Once you find your "new" normal and a routine, things will get easier. For me the hardest part of being a new mom was adjusting to the new "normal" and finding a routine. Once I did that, it was much easier. Your blog will change because your son will be the center of your universe but seeing as your blog is your passion, it will continue to reflect you. Yes your topics will change but it will inspire other moms out there and help them.
I have to be honest with you, i didn't really care for other people's kids either. Sure I liked kids but some I really didn't. It all changed once I had Aiden. And it will for you as well. THis baby will be yours and it's amazing the strength and magnitude of love you will develop for your son. I still don't like some peoples' kids but yours is different.
Enjoy your last few days of just being you and your husband. Your son will bless you in ways you never thought he would. Every day I look at my son and thank God for having him in my life. He is truly a blessing in our lives. I can't wait to see pictures of your sweet little angel.
Agi:)
vodkainfusedlemonade.wordpress.com
I was never a "baby person" either, but it's totally different with your own! Looking forward to all you want to share about your new bundle of joy! I always enjoy all of your posts. Hope you are making it through these last few days - time seemed to stand still for me for the last few weeks! I'm sure you can't wait. Many blessings to you and your family!!
You will be an amazing Mom to your new little guy. I look forward to a picture of him and the entire family. You sound like a very proud Mom already and you have alot to be happy for. Wishing you the best over the next weeks, months and years to come.
hi marion - i am a fellow (new) blogger and a mom of two. i started my blog because I USED to be really into fashion, design, etc and then lost some of that when i became so busy with work AND 2 kids so that is why i started my blog. anyway - yes your priorities will change and you WILL focus more on home and family stuff but you are lucky that you already have this outlet for your fun, design, fashion side so please stick to it. i also have never been a baby person and don't really think i am today still. i love my kids and the kids of close friends or my nieces / nephews but i don't generally like "other people's kids" ... well not that I don't "like" them but i don't feel the need to rush out and hold someone else's baby. i think that is fine. you are who you are and you will be a great mom but no joke - the first 3-4 months is HARD. if you ever have an emotional breakdown, don't feel bad, it happens to a lot of us. it's the toughest and best job out there - being a mom
Not Going Out Like That
I am EXCITED to see how the blog will evolve once you are a Momma, love your honesty here and doubt I will be turned off by what is to come on your blog. Best of luck to you when baby come :)
Lindsay
LindsayJEveryday.blogspot.com
I was just like you before I had children. Don't worry, when you hold your little one in your arms for the first time, you'll become a "baby person" for your baby. That's what counts! I really look forward to some home/family posts. I know you'll infuse your humor and fun into those posts as you do your style/beauty/fashion posts. That's why I love reading your blog! Try and relax these last few days - you'll need it : ) On a side note, my little guy will be 3 on the 16th. Boys are a real joy : )
I can definitely relate! Like you, I was never a "baby" person either! I think it's part of the reason why I waited so long to have one...I really wanted to feel ready. You're going to be an amazing mom, Marion and I can't wait to continue following your blog...no matter what you decide to post! I hope you had a great weekend! We're so close! xo
Marion, You seem like a fun loving person & that is a key to being a parent! Also, remember they are only babies for a short time...you're going to be great!! Also I will read your blog no matter what!!
I am SO excited to see you be a mom on this blog, can;t wait for future posts, photos and thoughts! I too am not a baby person who flock to them! You will be a wonderful mother and I wish you a safe and painless birth! So excited for you Marion!
XO http://shesaidhesaid-fashion.blogspot.com/
No matter what you write about, I AM HERE! I love your blog, and not just for you outfits. Can't wait to follow along as you learn to be an AMAZING mom!
Hi there! i follow your blog as anonymous. But i realize you are a great person. You have to be very smart and wise to open up like that to strangers and express your fears. Do not worry about the baby. I am a Doctor and let me tell you that instint will come naturally. and life is about changing. is the fist time that i make a comment so i hope this cheers you up!
I love your blog, and will welcome any fashion, lifestyle, or baby-related posts to come! Best wishes as you prepare to welcome your baby into the world! What a blessing!
P.S. I am not a baby person either. I share your fears in this regard, but I trust that God knows when we need the maternity instincts to kick in! You will be great as a mom, I'm sure of it!
Well im sure we will be seeing less of you' on here, trust me once that baby is here at least for the first few weeks you need to rest as much as you can when the baby is sleeping, no time to blog lol rest instead! My opinon is i cant wait to see your baby related post but i suggest not showing your baby online soo much some people blog every single detail of their family and i feel sometimes it cant be good. there are a lot of creepos out there. I have my photography blog and while i do blog family sessions on there i have rarely maaaybe once blogged about my daughter, i dunno just food for thought ;) .
I love your blog...not only for fashion, but for your stories as well. I'll embrace the new baby blogs, bring it on!
carwil19.bllogspot.com
I'm totally excited to watch you (and the blog!) change with your new life. It sounds totally cliche, but becoming a mom really IS a game changer. You look at everything in the world differently. I can't wait to see how that translates with you and your blog!
Can't wait to read the new 'mommy posts' to come! It's your life (which is changing drastically) and your blog should reflect all of that! Very exciting!
OMG! you just described me! I'm totally like you with babies and puppies or kitties :) but babies just terrify me and I don't know how to interact with them..
However, I've been thinking about having one by next year... I'll be turning 30 in 2014 and the idea of having a baby older than that doesn't appeal me. But on the other hand, I think I want one but just not sure if I can handle it right now... :
I'm very curious about your blog's new course and I'm sure that it'll be terrific. Don't worry, I'm sure with baby moments your blog will be in a whole different aspect. Can't wait! :)
www.fashionizelife.com
I don't have any kiddos but I'm totally pumped to read all about your baby and life as a new mom because I love to read about YOU! So I will definitely be sticking around. And I appreciate your honesty in saying you're not a baby person. I know a lot of people aren't. But that doesn't change your capability as a mother - you are going to be terrific at it! Your sweet little baby is going to be SO lucky to have you as a mom! Good luck in these next couple days!
You, Marion, are a friend. Friends support one another and share the many ups and downs of life. We're thrilled you are a mommy. We'll stay with you no matter what you post on this blog. I'm not a baby person either but I do look forward to seeing pictures of "our" little man. Blessings girlfriend.
I can't wait for your baby to be here! Creepy, I know, because we've never met, but you are one of my fave bloggers. I don't have kids but plan on it - and I feel the same way you do. :) Also a huge dog person.
Your fashion is inspiring, but also remember this is YOUR blog! I'm sure more people would love more lifestyle/baby posts than not.
I am so excited for you to become a mother!! I cannot wait to see photos of your sweet baby.
Meredith
createthatoutfit.com
I can't believe you are going to have your baby soon! You are going to be an amazing mom! Can't wait to hear all about motherhood and your new little one :)
www.kacieskloset.blogspot.com
www.daisyraeboutique.com
I know some people that aren't "baby people" and have kids. They say it's different when it's yours. You don't have to change and be a "baby person" now.
I wasn't a baby person (I ALWAYS made them cry) until my nephew came along, and now my family calls me the baby whisperer. : ) I think it's very different when the baby is yours/a close family member's. I'm so excited to continue reading your blog as it grows and changes along with you.
Best wishes on a safe and healthy delivery for you and baby. xoxo
I can't wait to 'meet' your new little man and see how your Blog grows.
Also, my hubby was also terrified of babies. And seriously freaked about being a dad. He had no idea how to even hold a baby. And then they placed our son in his arms and all of a sudden he was a natural. It really is different when it (he) is yours. :)
Marion, you'll be a great mom these things come naturally and remember he choose you to be his mommy ;-)
BTW, I had my first daughter when I was 19, was a single mom for 7 years and even we survived...lol
Dayi
Congratulations! Your confession for fear of babies gave me a chuckle, I am on the same boat! I am far from being a mom, but I can only imagine what a life changing event it will be to see your own child in your arms :)
This may be one of my favorite posts yet :-) And the fact we may have been sisters in a different life...I have never been a baby person, but very much excited to see where I'll be in the next few years. I am so happy for you and I can't wait to see how Marionberry Style will evolve. Fashion and cute babiness = amazing!! Will definitely be thinking about you the next few days!!
This post made me smile. :) I have a 14 month old baby girl and used to think the exact same way as you. I always new I wanted to have kids, but I was never really a baby person. Whenever there was a baby around, my friends would always obsess over them and insist on holding them. I always secretly hoped no one tried to pass them off to me. I just had no interest and aside from that, I was convinced I wouldn't know how to hold them, or that they would cry and I wouldn't know what to do. I will say though, that once baby comes, your motherly instincts will kick in and it what once seemed to awkward will become the norm. (Don't get me wrong, I was terrified of my own baby for like the first couple of weeks! Haha)
Before you know it, you won't remember what it was like not to have a such wonderful and beautiful baby in your life.
Congratulations, you will be a great mom!
(PS - I personally would LOVE to see some baby posts in addition to your regular fashion posts.)
Your followers won't have to pretend to be interested. Can't wait to see your busy mom on the go posts.
@ everyone -
Wow. Totally overwhelmed with your comments and your kindness. I wish I could talk to each of you personally and tell you how much it means that you took the time + energy + thought to write such amazing words in response to this post. I just don't even know what to say.
So I'll just say thank you. You inspire me.
xo - Marion
You'll be a beautiful mom, and your blog will always be on top. Can't wait to see your little bundle of joy!!!
Elena
I'm excited to read about how your life will evolve with a baby. You are just one year behind me. I had my first baby by last tear, so I am excited to hear about your baby adventures. BTW, I wasn't a baby person either, but believe me you'll quickly become one once that little guy arrives.
You will be a great mom Marion! I was in the same boat about not being a baby person. I never carried a new born or changed a diaper before my son was born. No matter how many books you read, it's never the same thing as real life. It's will be tough but all so worth it. I can not believe how much fun I have with my little man every day.
Alice
www.happinessatmidlife.com
You're going to be a great mom! My daughter is also expecting her first baby,(she's due in May), and I love sharing your pregnancy fashion tips with her! I also enjoy your non-maternity fashion tips for myself...because I intend to be the cool, hip grandma! :)
AH! What an exciting time for you, I wouldnt blame you at all if your blog changed a bit, I will read no matter what. I am the same as you, I am not a baby person either. I mean I think they are cute- at times- but I tried to hold my friends baby and I gave it back in under 10 minutes ha-ha. Seriously just not my forte. BUT show me/bring me a dog and I become all mushy and gushy and cuddly! I am the same as you. BUT you will be great and I know it. :)
Your Going to be great. We like your blog, becasue we like you... :-) So Im sure whatever part of your life you would like to share with us, we would like ot listen. Check out this blog...She recently had a baby and I think her blog has a nice balance. (Also- if you look back at some of her older posts -right after baby- they might be helpful to you!) :-)
oops, I forgot to add the blog link! My bad. Here it is: http://andeelayne.blogspot.com/
Hi Marion! My goodness, it must be so soon now! Due date for 20th, what an amazing pregnancy journey for you, I'm sure you can't wait now for the birth! Yes, you'll change, you'll spend time in stunned amazement - Babyfied!
Zoe xxx
Marion you will be an amazing mom I can tell. I just started reading your blog a few months ago and I have really enjoyed watching your journey and cannot wait to see what the mommy-role holds for you! Best of luck and can't wait to see your little guy!
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As a new mom to be...I feel the same way. I never held a baby before actually. Never baby sat...never changed a diaper...never really been near a baby...yet I am a teacher and love kids. I am just not sure I am baby friendly...but I think that is what makes motherhood so special...that you learn to be a mother...and try your hardest. :-) You will do fine!! <3 can't wait to meet your lil guy!
You will be amazing & I can't wait to follow along on your journey!!
xoAmy
www.dreamingincashmere.com
You will be fine. You will not make your baby cry. And you are fabulous! Just try to get rest when you can and take ome Mommy time once in a while. Deep breaths during contractions and life thereafter ...
I am having very similar feelings. How will I know what to do with him? How will life change? But I'm so pleased to be blessed with this little one, I'm confident it will all work out.
You're gonna be a great momma! And I'm counting on pics of baby. You can't watch a belly grow and then not see the end result, right?
I would love to hear your story sometime. We have one as well and it's always nice to know you're not alone when it comes to fertility challenges.
I too have never been much of a baby person....I relate so much better to older kids, which is why I teach middle school :) That being said, you are going to be an awesome mom, and I am so excited for you!
You are going to be a fantastic mother! I am totally not a 'baby person' but you'll be amazed at how much you will rock this new title. It might not always be easy and there will be times (perhaps 99% of the time) that you feel like you are failing...trust me, you aren't. I can't wait to see what this year has in store for you! And I'll be here following along...offering my unsolicited tidbits of advice ;)
Chelsea
Haute Child in the City
I love to read your fashion posts, but to be honest; what keeps me coming back is your humor, smile and non-nonsense attitude.
Good luck with the delivery - I'm sure you will be a fantastic mother.
I love this post...I am totally with you on the not being a "baby" person...but I will say that being pregnant and seeing this change happen in my life has certainly shifted my perspectives and I can't wait to hold my very own little baby in a couple of months ;)
Best of luck and I will definitely be checking back to see how you're doing ;)
XOXO
Babies are very resilient and for a loving parent (which you will absolutely be), it's hard to screw them up. Give yourself time. The first 6 weeks are rough, but so worth it. One of the earlier comments said nothing can prepare you, and she's absolutely right. Don't get down on yourself if things don't go according to how you think motherhood is supposed to be/feel. You'll adjust and you'll love it, and your son. One step at a time. We're all here for you.
I can't wait to see you as a momma! It's the most amazing, scary, tiring, happiest thing in the world! :)
Yay! You'll be a wonderful mom Marion! Congratulations! I'm looking forward to following along this journey! xoxo
Everyone whose honest with themselves will tell you they have the same fears. I felt the same stuff and loads more after the hormones kick once the little man is here, LOL! You are going to be a great Mom!
You just wait, you'll amaze yourself how easily you become a "baby person", only a "baby person" about your lil' guy only! LOL We can't wait to hear all about it, really!
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